Have you ever wondered what it takes to be rich?
And have you ever wondered how rich people become so rich?
Could it be the big jackpot that they won? Maybe it was from the Bank of Mom and Dad? Or maybe it was Aunt Sally who left them with a big inheritance after she passed?
I mean, we always end up hearing stories of those who went broke after receiving an inheritance or winning the lottery, right?
It’s All About Your Mindset
Instead of relying on some big windfall, did you know that becoming rich has a lot to do with psychology and how you think?
For 26 years, self-made millionaire Steve Siebold interviewed some of the richest people in the world and wrote a book called How Rich People Think.
I read this book over a year ago and I truly believe that this can change your life if you develop the right mindset!
In the Introduction of the book, Siebold says:
“When I started this journey in 1984, I was a college student, completely broke and searching for answers about success I wasn’t finding in the classroom. My discoveries along the way changed my life, and I wrote this book to give you the same opportunity… The secret is not in the mechanics of money, but in the level of thinking that generates it. Once you learn to embrace this, your earning potential is limitless.”
After finishing this book, my mindset instantly changed from being poor to rich!
Now, I’m nowhere close to being rich today. But Siebold’s book opened up my mind to a world filled with rich and abundant opportunities! It’s just a matter of your mindset and how you think! With that said, I highly recommend this book.
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Which Mindset Do You Have?
I decided to write this post today because I was inspired by Jason Cabler’s article “10 Huge Differences Between Rich People and Poor People.” This article reminds me that I need to improve on some areas if I want to increase my chances of becoming rich. (BTW Jason, if you ever read this, I scored about 70% to 75% on your post, haha).
On top of that, I want to pass along what I learned a year ago when I read Siebold’s book. Not to mention, it’s also a good reminder that I should carry this mindset with me into the new year.
World-Class vs. the Masses
You’ll soon learn the differences between how the rich (“world-class”) and the middle-class (“masses”) think. Siebold’s book has about 100 chapters on their different views, but I will talk about my favorite ten.
Before I begin, I want to mention that I’m not here to denigrate the poor or middle-class (like what Jason mentions in his article too). In fact, I mentioned in my about me page that I was born poor (still poor), but have a strong desire to change that. Again, I’m nowhere near being rich, but these points can serve as a motivation as we head into 2018.
– How We Went From $93,000 Debt To Over $750,000 Equity in 7 Years
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Anyway, let’s dive into the mindset of the rich, shall we?
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1) The rich focus on earnings
The masses focus on saving
If you’ve been following me, you’ll know by now that I always try (haha I know trying isn’t good enough) to develop a mindset of abundance.
We need to start believing that money is abundant; not scarce. And it’s not to say that saving isn’t important — it is. But we can definitely make improvements by focusing our energy on earnings, passive income, new ideas, and becoming BFFs with Mr. Compound Interest.
“Driven by the fear of loss and uncertainty of the future, the masses focus on how to protect and hoard their money. While world-class thinkers understand the importance of saving and investing, they direct their mental energy toward accumulating wealth through serving people and solving problems.”
Think about what the masses problems are. If you can solve their problems, you’ve hit the jackpot! (It’s easier said than done, I know haha)
Here’s another interesting point Siebold makes:
“Figuratively speaking, money does grow on trees; and the trees are ideas. As long as man walks the earth, he will have problems that need to be solved by creative ideas. And the more problems the performer solves, the richer she becomes.”
I know this sounds like “common sense” but unfortunately, common sense isn’t so common, hah!
2) The rich think about money in non-linear terms
The masses think about money in linear terms
Most people believe that time is money. In other words, they trade their time for money — hence the term “linear.”
Generally speaking, the masses believe that putting in more hours of work equates to more money. Yes, I agree that most would initially trade in their time for some money. But once you accumulate your first pot of gold, what would you do with it?
Rich people know that money makes money, so they would put it to work. In other words, they know that money works harder than them, so they invest it (my next point).
But aside from investing, Siebold also writes:
“The great ones are masters at generating money through ideas that solve problems. They realize since there is no limit to ideas, there is no limit to how much money they can earn… Since most people think of making money in a linear fashion, they never invest the necessary effort to create high impact solutions.”
“You reach the point where you don’t work for money.”
— Walt Disney
3) The rich think about investing
The masses think about spending
Siebold mentions that the masses are known for living above their means. He says not all of them are big spenders, but they have to spend in order to live a decent life. So, he says the answer is to “double or triple your income” so that you can invest and enjoy life at the same time.
In other words, why can’t it be both? Why does it have to be one and not the other? They’re not mutually exclusive — you can have it all!
He adds at the end of this point:
“You only live once (YOLO) and you can’t take it with you. Why not enjoy it?”
But of course, I’m sure he means to YOLO only because the rich can afford it.
4) The rich lives below their means
The masses live beyond their means
We always hear the old adage “live below your means.”
We certainly live below our means, and we have to make a few sacrifices in order to build wealth.
But when Siebold writes “live below your means,” he means it a bit differently than what most of us think.
“The rich live below their means, not because they’re so savvy, but because they make so much money they can afford to live like royalty while still having a king’s ransom socked away for the future. It’s easy to live below your means when you earn more in a day than most people earn in a year. Not to mention that the rich earn money primarily through leverage, and not hard labor. It’s hard labor that creates the physical and psychological stress that kills so many poverty, working, and middle-class workers.”
His final point is:
“Here’s how to live below your means and tap into the secret wealthy people have used for centuries: get so rich you can afford to.“
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5) The rich get rich doing what they love
The masses earn money doing things they don’t like to do
When I was still in school, I always listened to my dad. I mean, who else would I listen to? Haha.
He would always tell me over and over and over again:
“Get your masters. Get into a top company. Climb that ladder. You’ll be rich and you’ll be able to buy anything you like. Listen to me and you won’t be poor like your mother and I.”
Um, okay… so, my response to him would be:
“Daddy, aside from money, what about my passions?”
Andddddddd… he would laugh at me and think I’m either stupid or on drugs. I couldn’t tell which one it was.
Although, secretly this would be my expression inside. I just wouldn’t say it to him:
Now, I’m not here to say whether his advice is right or wrong. At the end of the day, it’s a personal choice. But this is the masses advice and I’ve crossed it outta my books a long time ago. Sorry, daddy! Please don’t kill me for saying this.
Due to certain circumstances, I admit that I’m still dragging myself to unfulfilling corporate work every day (I’m looking to cut the cord soon). But I’ve been doing things I love outside my day job such as:
– flipping furniture to earn more money
– reading personal finance to better manage our money
– teaching my friends about personal finance because I want to help them live a better life
And more recently, I started this blog as an outlet to log my financial journey. On top of that, I want to inspire people like you to get ahead with your finances. This helps me learn and I personally find all of this fun and exciting!
I know I’m nowhere near rich, but the most important part is getting started. Nothing happens overnight, guys!
Here’s what Siebold says about the rich doing what they love. It’s something we can learn from (if we have the balls to do it):
“The rich have retrained themselves to operate in a non-linear consciousness where anything is possible. The greatest example of this non-linear concept is the idea that passion is the real secret of getting rich. It’s a cause and effect relationship between effort and passion, but while the masses see passion as the effect, the great ones see it as the cause. In other words, the average person goes to work every day and hopes to find passion in his or her efforts. The rich go to work every day feeling passion for what they do, and their passion fuels their efforts.“
“Take the job you would take if you were independently wealthy. You’re going to do well at it.”
— Warren Buffett
6) The rich embrace any form of education that makes them wealthier
The masses embrace advanced degrees
This goes back to my point above. My dad used to tell me that formal education will be my roads to riches!
To be honest, I’m happy I didn’t pursue another degree after my undergrad. I was never “book smart” and scoring high on exams just wasn’t my thing. I really really sucked at it! Not to mention, I was in la-la land most of the time in my classes.
Over the years, I began to realize that I enjoy reading, learning things on my own, or learning from other people’s experiences.
Here’s what Siebold has to say:
“The rich and ambitious are also great fans of self-study through the use of books, audio programs and other educational materials. They will educate themselves by interviewing successful people in their field. They will hire personal coaches and consultants. They will tap any form of education available to make their dreams a reality, and they don’t need a diploma or certificate of completion to validate their investment. So, while the middle class tends to limit themselves to formal education, the world class is open to anything that moves them closer to their goals.”
That explains why Warren Buffett showcases his little award certificate on his public speaking skills from the Dale Carnegie course and not his advanced degrees.
“If I hadn’t had done that, my whole life would have been different,” Buffett says. “So in my office, you will not see the degree I got from the University of Nebraska, you’ll not see the master’s degree I got from Columbia University, but you’ll see the little award certificate I got from the Dale Carnegie course.”
7) The rich build their own ship
The masses wait for their ship to come in
This one is one of my favorites. While the masses are waiting for mom, dad, Aunt Sally, the lottery, or someone to rescue them, the rich have already started building and planning for their nest. The rich know that there’s no white knight to come save them!
Nope, we’re not Princess Fiona here, so no Shrek to the rescue.
In Siebold’s book, he writes:
“It’s like the fat person slowing killing herself through obesity, who patiently waits for the next pill or potion to make her thin and healthy… The world class knows no one is coming to their rescue… The foundation principle they live by is self-reliance and personal responsibility.”
8) The rich believe money reveals people
The masses believe money changes people
In other words, the masses believe that money will turn people into villains. You know… the Hollywood movies that portray rich people as doucheb@gs? Oops, excuse my language.
Um, yeah… but no.
Instead, money is a tool that can be used to help you. Money is neither good or evil — it depends on how you use it. Stated differently, money magnifies who you are.
“If you were a crook or a cheater before you were rich, you’ll be worse when you’re wealthy. If you were an honest, hardworking, humble person before, you’ll be even better with expanded resources. Getting rich is one of the catalysts that liberates and reveals a person’s true self. The masses love to blame money for as many things as possible, because it psychologically absolves them from the responsibility of acquiring it.”
9) The rich take calculated risks
The masses play it safe with money
In one of Siebold’s other points, he also mentions that the middle-classes love to be comfortable, whereas the world-class is comfortable being uncomfortable.
Okay, I’ll admit that I’m not 100% comfortable being uncomfortable, but sometimes it takes a few uncomfortable experiences to feel less uncomfortable — if you know what I mean.
Investing makes a perfect example to explain how the masses play it safe with money. Most people fear losing so they would never have the balls to invest in single stocks, equity funds, or real estate.
Instead, most put their money in risk-free treasuries, so-called “high interest” savings accounts, bonds, and CDs (certificate of deposits) which yield them peanuts. If it’s all sitting in cash, even worse! They’re actually losing money from inflation.
Sure, the risks are higher with stocks and equities, but they provide higher potential returns. Not to mention, if you’re in your 20s, 30s, or even 40s, you can withstand the volatile markets due to your long time horizon.
Aside from investing in the markets, the same concept applies to opening a business as well.
At the end of the day, there’s no such thing as low risks and high returns.
We need to recognize that there will be times that we lose, but there will also be times that we win (at least that’s how we should think). Without going through many failures and incurring losses, how could we ever win?
“I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life and that is why I succeed.”
— Michael Jordan
10) The rich believe the rich are selfish and self-absorbed
The masses believe the rich are selfish and self-absorbed
Oh man, I love this one because everyone will think it’s a typo, but it’s not.
Siebold says “the difference is the middle class thinks it’s wrong while the world-class thinks it’s right.”
It was so odd when I read this one because I always had this same thought when I was a child.
As a helpless child, I always thought to myself “how can I help my mom, dad, and others when I can’t even help myself first?”
Over the years, I always thought about my parents’ retirement. While they’re still working and earning some income to fund their current expenses, they have close to $0 in savings and investments for their retirement!
While I can certainly give them money today, or take them out to eat regularly, I chose to limit that because it would be more harmful than helpful for all of us.
Instead, I’ve been secretly saving and investing some money on the side (call it the “mom and dad fund”) so that it will help them with their retirement.
They don’t know that I’m doing this, and they may think I’m selfish for not giving them much today (or maybe I’m just too sensitive). But my parents are very hardworking and I know they often hear stories about their friends’ kids who always take their parents out to nice dinners, give them a generous amount of guilt-free spending money, and buy them luxury goods.
Don’t get me wrong — I do treat them, just not as often as I would like. But if I can’t help myself today, then there’s no way I can help or “spoil” my parents today.
I figured saving and investing a bit of money on the side would be more helpful for them tomorrow (including myself) than giving them loads of money and luxury goods today. They would just spend it on non-essentials anyway.
So, yeah… I guess at the end, it’s still all about me (to a degree), lol!
Anyway, here’s what Siebold says:
“The masses are programmed to believe at an early age they should put the needs of others in front of their own. While this sounds like a spirit driven, high-level philosophy, it’s the worst advice you can get. When you fly on a commercial airline, the first thing the flight attendant tells the passengers is, ‘in case of an emergency, your oxygen mask will drop down in front of you. Please secure your mask first and get the oxygen flowing before you attempt to help anyone else.’ That selfish strategy has saved many lives”
“The premise is simple: If you’re not taking care of you, you’re not in a position to help anyone else. You can’t give what you don’t have, and if you’re struggling to pay your bills while volunteering four nights a week, you’re probably hurting more people than you’re helping.”
Well, there you have it — a sneak peek of how rich people think.
Here’s a recap of my favorite ten:
1) The rich focus on earnings. The masses focus on saving.
2) The rich think about money in non-linear terms. The masses think about money in linear terms.
3) The rich think about investing. The masses think about spending.
4) The rich lives below their means. The masses live beyond their means.
5) The rich get rich doing what they love. The masses earn money doing things they don’t like to do.
6) The rich embrace any form of education that makes them wealthier. The masses embrace advanced degrees.
7) The rich build their own ship. The masses wait for their ship to come in.
8) The rich believe money reveals people. The masses believe money changes people.
9) The rich take calculated risks. The masses play it safe with money.
10) The rich believe the rich are selfish and self-absorbed. The masses believe the rich are selfish and self-absorbed.
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Over to you
So, what do you think?
Do you have a rich mindset?
I know that I’m lacking in some areas, but I’m ready to improve and become the better version of me! 😉
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